Sweet Dreams Cake

My husband was watching television last night and gasped that he saw a Valentine's Day ad for a jewelry store.  "I can't believe it", he exclaimed.  "Valentine's Day ads already?", he said in amazement.  I looked at him in shock...I told him that Valentine's ads have been running for over a month now...where have you been?

I have never been a strong component of Valentine's Day.  As a "Grown Up", I believe that you should show your love to those around you all year long...not just make the extra effort one day out of the year.

As a teen in high school, I dreaded Valentine's Day during the school week.  It felt like every other girl was getting a "candy gram", flowers, teddy bears with a heart on its belly, balloon bouquets and the ever popular Russell Stover velvet covered box of chocolates from their boyfriends.  They could barely walk down the hall as their overflowing arms are weighed down with the menagerie of gifts.  (I'm guessing that any therapist would probably tell me this is the reason I am not a fan of the annual love day).

Fast forward and now I have teenage girls in high school.  They have already expressed that they are dreading Valentine's Day this year because of all the couple's gifts exchanges that will soon be taking place in their school's halls...and that breaks my heart, because I know exactly what they are going through.

We will make a conscience effort that my husband and I have stuffed bears with hearts on them and special boxes of chocolates to give the girls this year.  I know it's not the same as a boyfriend giving it to them...but a thoughtful gift of chocolate always helps a girl feel a little better, even if it's from her daddy.

My only advice is, don't worry girls, one day your Prince Charming will walk down those halls, into your life...until then...Sweet Dreams.

Sweet Dreams Cake

Red Velvet Dry Cake Mix 
(eggs, canola oil and water, as per cake mix instructions)
(2) 3.4 oz. packages Jell-O White Chocolate  flavored Instant Pudding 
4 cups cold milk
8 oz. Cool Whip whipped topping
Hershey's mini chocolate coated candies

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Prepare cake mix according to the directions on package and bake in a 9" x 13" pan until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean.

Let cake cool completely. Then using the end of a wooden or plastic spoon, poke several holes all over the cake.

Whisk together the pudding and the milk, then pour over the cake, making sure to fill the holes.

Refrigerate the cake for about 10-15 minutes, until pudding has set.

Spread the whipped topping evenly over the top and then sprinkle with the mini candies.

Store covered in refrigerator.

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Chocolate Layered Pudding with Chocolate Box Wine and the ER

We experienced many broken hearts on Valentine's Day this year...not our best year for the holiday.

My oldest daughter woke up Thursday morning, bent over in pain and very nauseous.  I have had sick kids before but this one was completely different and I knew something was wrong. I immediately took her to urgent care and after a quick check-in there, daughter feeling faint and very dehydrated, we were immediately sent to the emergency room.

After spending most of the day in the ER we learned that she has a stomach virus that is running ramped through our city and does not let up very easy.  She looked so helpless but was very brave through all the tests and waiting, my heart just went out to her....broken heart # 1. 

My poor daughter who was supposed to leave for her New Mexico volleyball tournament had to be given the bad news that she needed to stay home and not go...broken heart #2.  Supposedly this virus can last at least a week.  Even as I write this, she is home with Dad and still on a liquid diet.

That left me and her sister to hit the road alone and attend the New Mexico tournament without her.  My twins have virtually been together almost 24-7 their whole lives.  This is the first time they have ever been apart this long and the younger one is really missing her sister...broken heart #3.

I tried to cheer her up and we went out for pizza our first night here on Valentine's Day.  They were serving up heart shaped pizza - very cute and definitely put a smile on our faces.

Our special Valentine's Dinner

The night before we left, I felt absolutely terrible about leaving my husband alone with our sick girl.  We usually team together and get through these things as a family, as he was really sad that she could not go either...and there we have broken heart #4.

The whole ER day threw our plans in a tailspin, so none of us celebrated the holiday.  I did my best though and brought home a special bottle of "Chocolate Box" Red Blend Wine.

My husband has also given up sweets since January 1st.  He definitely has more willpower than me.  Not to worry though, I am eating all of his sweets so nothing goes to waste....it's just now going to my waist. 

One of my most favorite deserts comes from my Grandma.  It is sinfully delicious and I could easily eat the entire pan of this if next week continues to go the same as last week did. 



Layered Pudding

Courtesy of GGMa

For The Crust Base:

1 cup flour

1/2 cup butter, softened

1/4 tsp. salt

1/4 cup powder sugar

1/4 cup chopped pecans

Mix well and pat out in a 9 x 13 pan.  Bake in 325 degree oven for 15 minutes.

For The 1st Layer of Filling:

1 8-oz. package of cream cheese, room temperature

1 9-oz. container of Cool Whip

1 cup powder sugar

Mix well and spread on cooked and cooled crust.

The Next Layer:

1 small package instant chocolate pudding

1-1/2 cups milk

Mix together and spread on top of cream cheese layer.  Let set in refrigerator 1 hour.

(this is where I stopped, due to lack of remaining ingredients, but there is more to come)

Do the same with one package of instant vanilla pudding and let set one hour.

Spread with (1) 4-1/2 oz. container of Cool Whip and sprinkle with chopped nuts.  Chill one more hour and serve.