Chocolate Layered Pudding with Chocolate Box Wine and the ER

We experienced many broken hearts on Valentine's Day this year...not our best year for the holiday.

My oldest daughter woke up Thursday morning, bent over in pain and very nauseous.  I have had sick kids before but this one was completely different and I knew something was wrong. I immediately took her to urgent care and after a quick check-in there, daughter feeling faint and very dehydrated, we were immediately sent to the emergency room.

After spending most of the day in the ER we learned that she has a stomach virus that is running ramped through our city and does not let up very easy.  She looked so helpless but was very brave through all the tests and waiting, my heart just went out to her....broken heart # 1. 

My poor daughter who was supposed to leave for her New Mexico volleyball tournament had to be given the bad news that she needed to stay home and not go...broken heart #2.  Supposedly this virus can last at least a week.  Even as I write this, she is home with Dad and still on a liquid diet.

That left me and her sister to hit the road alone and attend the New Mexico tournament without her.  My twins have virtually been together almost 24-7 their whole lives.  This is the first time they have ever been apart this long and the younger one is really missing her sister...broken heart #3.

I tried to cheer her up and we went out for pizza our first night here on Valentine's Day.  They were serving up heart shaped pizza - very cute and definitely put a smile on our faces.

Our special Valentine's Dinner

The night before we left, I felt absolutely terrible about leaving my husband alone with our sick girl.  We usually team together and get through these things as a family, as he was really sad that she could not go either...and there we have broken heart #4.

The whole ER day threw our plans in a tailspin, so none of us celebrated the holiday.  I did my best though and brought home a special bottle of "Chocolate Box" Red Blend Wine.

My husband has also given up sweets since January 1st.  He definitely has more willpower than me.  Not to worry though, I am eating all of his sweets so nothing goes to waste....it's just now going to my waist. 

One of my most favorite deserts comes from my Grandma.  It is sinfully delicious and I could easily eat the entire pan of this if next week continues to go the same as last week did. 



Layered Pudding

Courtesy of GGMa

For The Crust Base:

1 cup flour

1/2 cup butter, softened

1/4 tsp. salt

1/4 cup powder sugar

1/4 cup chopped pecans

Mix well and pat out in a 9 x 13 pan.  Bake in 325 degree oven for 15 minutes.

For The 1st Layer of Filling:

1 8-oz. package of cream cheese, room temperature

1 9-oz. container of Cool Whip

1 cup powder sugar

Mix well and spread on cooked and cooled crust.

The Next Layer:

1 small package instant chocolate pudding

1-1/2 cups milk

Mix together and spread on top of cream cheese layer.  Let set in refrigerator 1 hour.

(this is where I stopped, due to lack of remaining ingredients, but there is more to come)

Do the same with one package of instant vanilla pudding and let set one hour.

Spread with (1) 4-1/2 oz. container of Cool Whip and sprinkle with chopped nuts.  Chill one more hour and serve.



For Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow

When an author writes a book, he or she will typically always dedicate it to someone...be it their friend, spouse, children, parent, or simply that one special person that has inspired them in their life.

I suppose writing a blog is like authoring a book, except that it is always evolving and expanding for everyone in the cyber-world to read and experience.  You never know who (if anyone) will read a blog or how it reaches out to a particular person or group and perhaps even touch someone's life.  

In that spirit I am dedicating this blog to all of those people of my yesterdays, today and tomorrows who have inspired me.  You will read more about them in the coming weeks, months

  and hopefully years.

First, I have to thank my friend Toni who inspired me to take on this venture (and introduced me to Nutella and Prosecco).  Toni started her blog over two years ago and I love reading it. Her posts are hysterical - they make me laugh and cry all in the same paragraph.  If you want a true taste of what life is like in Alaska, 

check out her site, http://atasteofalaska.blogspot.com/.

My inspirations of yesterday are two very dear ladies that have passed and are missed often...

my mother-in-law Janis and my sister-in-law Jodi. 

I have all the respect for Janis who was able to creatively feed their family of 11 each and every day and still find the time to put on a beautiful dress, wear her set of pearls and 

display an amazing pot luck party for all of their friends.

As you have probably surmised, I married into a very large family.  My husband is the youngest of 9 and with that comes many wonderful in-laws, nieces and nephews....all of which are excellent chefs (they even published their own family cookbook).  Jodi was one of those - the sister I never had.  She and I loved to cook together and had the utmost respect for each other's kitchen. 

To those in my life today, it goes without saying my greatest partner in the kitchen is my husband Mark. 

He can grill, bbq and smoke meats like nobody's business. 

 You gotta love a man that loves to clean a kitchen too!!!!

My mom Meredith who has lived her entire life in Alaska (not an easy thing to do) truly inspired and taught me to cook, work hard and never give up.  She is the most giving and caring person - mom would do anything for someone in need.  Her Chicken Cordon Bleu is out of this world and still one of my favorites to this day. 

Stay tuned for that one to come....

My grandmother Helen, one of the greatest and respectable ladies you will ever meet.  Her award winning Snickerdoodles and Chocolate Layered Pudding are those "can't eat just one" recipes.  More to come on this one (fair season is right around the corner - bring on the blue ribbons!!)

My high school and best friend Felicia.  I don't know how she has put up with me for all these years - a true friend indeed.  She is a vegetarian, which has helped me step up my game and challenged me to create menus when we are together, like my Churchill Downs Signature BBQ Shrimp.  (I can't help it - I do love a good steak). She has been gardening her entire life and I have much to learn from her.  

Her biggest weakness though is my husband's Cosmopolitan - oh so good!!

I also have to thank my very dear friend Carole.  I have known her for over 20 years and she is one of the most gracious, creative and kindest ladies.  She has prepared some of the most amazing old school Italian dishes for us and have shared our Puttanesca with her on many occasions.

 Mangia! Mangia!

And last but certainly not least, Annie and Debbie.  Two sisters from Kansas that have unbelievable tried and true family recipes that I love to make.  Stay tuned for Annie's Sunday Night Pot Roast - 

a favorite at any family gathering we have.

For those special people of the next generations, this is dedicated to my twin girls, stepson Tyler and his wife Rachel, twin grandchildren (yes, that's right mother and grandmother of twins) and sweet granddaughter (who loves to make cookies with her Nana Suzie).  I love each and every one of you.

Now, let's get cooking and start Corking Life's Moments!!